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Tuesday, June 4, 2013

DIY Stepping Stone Pathway

Sorry people! I've been a bit scarce around here. You see, when summer rolls around James and I get super busy with the kids…and after all….it's summer time.

Plus, we're always working on  a new project. We just {nearly} finished our walkway in our backyard.



This is what we had. Do you see all of those tiny red(ish) pebbles?
They are lovely, I really like them. The problem is that the kids love them too.


They love to throw them in the grass, and everywhere. They dig in them. James had it. Just one day he shoveled them all up and we were left with a eyesore. Until I found this on Amazon.

Better yet, hit the garage sales or ask your neighbors. I didn't realize how many people I knew already owned this!



We just followed the directions on the mold.
But here's some tips to help you out better. You learn as you go, so here's what we learned. 

: Concrete is different. If you want a really smooth stone, use sand topping mix concrete. It's not nearly as rocky as the cheap stuff. But it's over $5 a bag (which is darn pricey for concrete), so we opted for the regular concrete mix that was recommended on the mold.
You could lay the rocky stuff, and then use the sand topping mix to give it a smoother finish, but that's just asking for trouble.

: Get the right tools. We didn't want to mix it in our (borrowed) wheel barrow. So we purchased this tub for about $6. And this trowel was good for working in small little corners and creases. 
: Remove the first inch of dirt from the ground to make it harder. Tamper the ground really well to even it out. You need a really flat surface to work here!

: Wear gloves that fit well. I didn't have any gloves that fit, so I skipped it all together. I thought it was easier to deal with the concrete that way. The concrete package warns of burns, they weren't kidding. OUCH!

: Work as a team. James and I did this together. He did all of the mixing, and pouring. I worked with the trowel, and the smoothing. I can't imagine doing this alone, or having James do it all by himself. Impossible. It's already back breaking work, but it goes so much smoother (pun intended) when you work as a team. 

: Have a plan of attack. Before you begin to mix and lay the concrete, know where you want each mold. You can overlap the stones (by cutting off the ends of some of them with the mold itself). But when you come to the end of your path, it gets tricky to make it look perfect. So take your time and plan it out. 



: Use a mister to add water when smoothing the top of the concrete. I found the more water the better, but be careful not to add too much water. It won't hold it's shape. This is by far the most tedious part of the process (especially if you are using "rocky" concrete). But take your time, keep the hose (or watering can) handy. 

: Don't use a concrete stain. If you are working on a large area, and you are mixing it bag by bag, it would be impossible to get the same color mixture for each different tub. Well, that's my opinion at least. 

: Use an attractive border to pull it all together. We used the paving sand and the river rock (we already had the big stones there to begin with). A quick note about paving sand…we didn't have it go all the way to the top of the stones. We liked the stones sticking up higher than the sand. It gave it a more "organic" look and feel. 



Phew! It was a lot of work. Our backs are sore, our hands are dry and torn to shreds. But it was worth every blister. Plus, a path like this would have cost around $500 from a landscaper and it was just under $100. I'll take a $400 savings any day!

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The DIY Dreamer

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

The Time I Wanted To Move To Kansas

Do you ever feel the urge to just pack up and move? 
Usually I don't. I adore Colorado and I adore my "little, big town". I adore my family, friends, and relationships I've built here. I love my home, the parks, and the quick access to a variety of outdoor activities.

But as of late, I've been craving a change. I want a small town. I want land, and chickens, and goats (I have no idea why goats sound appealing). I want my kids to run around without fear of cars, or strangers. I am envious of mature trees, and plants, and vegetation. Kansas has all of this, and more….cows….my kids love those cows. 

We have a lot of family in Kansas, and I always love to visit. Small town life. There is nothing like it. We recently traveled there for a wedding (which was gorgeous). The kids played outside all day, stayed late up late, got dirty, played with cousins and had the time of their life. Tire swings, fairy houses, cowboy boots, big wheels, cupcakes, roasting marshmallows, tree stumps….what's not to love? It all made me want to pack it up and relocate.












This was Josiah's first haircut other than what I've butchered done.
Thanks to the groom for doing an awesome job, and giving him racing stripes that made him feel like Captain America. 








Micah stated "I am the Lorax!" 










I loved it all. Well, maybe not it all. There was the issue of the wind, and that dang humidity.
Then… when we arrived home, I had nearly forgotten this is where I live. How could I ever leave this?


Yes, Kansas is nice.
But I'm a Colorado girl through and through.

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Dear Ella

Dear Ella,



I can't even begin to tell you what you have done to our family. We made sense before you came along. It was loud, silly, dirty, and crazy. When you joined our family all of that still existed only with a lot more sparkle.

You have brought me so much joy! I love your sweet little voice. It's delicate and high pitch. Just perfect. I love your love for boots, shoes, and necklaces. That makes my heart leap for joy. I love when you wake up you ask for: #1 Food #2 Boys (your brothers). I love the crush you have on your father (even though I get a smidge jealous). Daddy is the best to you.
I love that you are girly, flirty, and sassy. I adore dressing you up and watching your face light up to go show the boys what you are wearing.


You have more personality in you than any two year old should. 
When asked "What ya doing Ella?" You will respond "Just being 'tute' (cute)". 
You sure know how to melt a heart. You are so smart. Smarter than I would have ever imagined. You speak in complete sentences, that nearly everybody can understand. You light up a room and draw attention like no body else. You are living up to your life verse so very well.
Matthew 5:14,16 “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden;“Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.
You are truly the light of our home. But with that comes a lot of spark. You are so energetic, you never stop moving and can't bear to be in a car. I have yet to read a book in it's entirety to you. No movie, song, book, or game will keep  you still. This makes road trip super fun with you. You are sassy. oh, so sassy. Because of your "smarts" you have become quite aware of the spell you have cast, and you know how to get at our weak spots. It is truly hard to say "no" to you but we do all right. You have us wrapped, and we're ok with that. 

You are a gift, a true gift. We cherish you, we love you, we adore you. I thank God for giving me a girl. I want to raise you right; to love Jesus, have true self-worth, and selfless character. Girl, you are going to move mountains. I couldn't be more ecstatic to be your mommy.




Smooches,
Mommy